Do you ever feel weary, tired, stuck, off, or not quite right? Do you feel that way internally? Externally?
Right now, I'm in the process of leaving the only home I've ever known. I'm a third generation Colorado native and all my family are friends here. (Excluding the new friends I've made on Twitter.) However, it's moving on to start a new life in the chapter of my husband's and my life together. With packing, I'm living in massive clutter. I'm in flux. I'm in-between lives. I'm in transition. Never mind my two new businesses I'm setting up and the five books I want to publish right away.
Hence, my interior life is weary. I'm tired. I'm Stuck. I'm off. I'm not quite right. I know my life is colorful, but the flux and transition tend to steal some of the color.
What do we do when our lives are stuck?
For each of us, there are smaller nuances that set us apart and are individualistic. However, I think that each of us has one major way in common that keeps us from getting stuck and helps us heal when we are weary.
I will use several different synonyms here, but will combine them into one term: the sacred.
The sacred can be defined as: color, hope, love, faith, beauty, the Creator, God, Christ, and the Bible.
In my opinion, the only answer is God, but not everyone is a Christian. I try to keep my religion and politics out of this blog as much as I can because I want it to be more about life, reading, and writing. This blog is supposed to be about stories.
However, there are times we have to admit that the story is about the sacred. It is all about the sacred. The sacred (God) is very influential in every single part of our lives. We are connected to the sacred. We cannot deny it. When we do, this is why we're weary, stuck, off, and tired. If we're stuck, it's because we have not devoted ourselves to the sacred (God) as we should.
Last night, I spent three hours on Bible study, getting into the Bible, and prayer. I took time to connect with Christ as much as I could. I do not believe that God requires acts from me. He requires faith. However, for my faith to increase, I need to pray and get into the Word. It helped me feel better immediately. Is this common? Sometimes. Did I do it to get closer with the Lord? Absolutely. Did I do it so I could feel better? No. It was because I realize I wandered off a little bit and needed to focus more on the sacred, and on Him, once again. When I wander, I need to lean more on Him, and the Word, again. I'm nothing without Him.
Are you stuck?
Why don't you try to turn again to the sacred (God)? If you already are, try it a little more. I bet you'll feel more whole, less weary, and more put together again shortly. The more stuck we feel, the more we need to seek the sacred (God).
Stacy Duplease of Stories by Stacy and Publishing by Stacy
2 years ago
Thanks Stacy. I have definitely been there before so I know what you're going through. I'm a Christian too- and I appreciate how you laid these thoughts out there for everyone to experience. Very nice.
ReplyDeleteAMEN!! I know how you feel. I have been unemployed now for 13 months and have not always been as close to Him as I should be!! I have had times of being lazy in my walk with Him!! But all I can say is "But God"!! I am a christian and I am only surviving this time of uncertainty because I have Jesus as my Lord and savior and I lean solely on Him, He is getting me through! !
ReplyDeleteThanks, Stacy. I'm having tough times at the moment (like many others) but my trials have brought me to the end of myself, left me with nothing ... nothing but God. So, after 20 years away from Him, I've taken the step back (it's always just one step, however many have been taken in the opposite direction). For the first time in my life, I've started praying, methodically and regularly. Wow. What a difference! :)
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